IntroductionIf you think that once you are +divorced everything will be fine and life will go on without any more problems, you are naive. There are realities to think about before divorce that many wish they had known. This is not to say that having this knowledge would have changed the outcome of the marriage in any way, it's just better to be prepared. You may have planned your life without being aware of the reality of life after divorce. The first of these realities is that +Divorce is horrible, whether you and your ex are on good terms and regardless of who initiated it. The sense of a “normal” family will continue to elude you even when you successfully blend your new family. You will experience frustration because you have less control over parenting your children. You can also count on +Friends and family who will take sides, regardless of whether your +marriage was bad, full of abuse and adultery. People will always see you in a different light, even if you have been divorced for many years and remarried. At some point you may decide to have sex and you will have many people who would like to set you up. You should allow them to do so. Even though you may have a lot of money, it will remain an issue between you and your ex-spouse. If they don't already know, your children will find out who initiated the divorce and express their unhappiness about it. There's a good reason why you're no longer married, so expect to have frequent disagreements with your ex. You will wake up at night wondering if your children are with you or your spouse. Even if your heart is broken, at some point you will consider dating. Don't rush....half of the paper...now they will be affected. The finances of both parties will be under pressure. Building two houses is more expensive than one. Child support is expensive and much easier in a single home. Both parents will lose in this situation. Salaries will take a hit. The economic implications of divorce are enormous. The financial impact of divorce can be very costly. Before divorcing you need to consider the reality and the consequences because they are serious. No one emerges unscathed from a divorce. Even if your marriage is abusive, adulterous, or where your spouse is addicted to a substance or has abandoned you, it is important to be notified before moving forward with a divorce. Knowledge is power and allows you to make plans and make wise decisions. We understand that marriage should not be taken lightly and in the same way as divorce.