Life is unpredictable. It doesn't always bring happiness and gives us everything we want. No matter how hard we try and no matter how much we want to move life according to our direction, it does not move according to our desires. In our lives we have to make important decisions. There are few decisions that give direction to our lives. So, to make these decisions it is imperative that all logical and logical factors are taken into consideration. But there often come times when we make decisions under the influence of others. In this family, relatives and friends play an important role in my life. If I rewind my life, then, I can also think of various events in which I made decisions under the influence of other people. We put others forcing us to follow and obey what others tell us is our priority and value. One of the decisions that pinches pain and doubt in my heart and mind is to continue the friendship with a friend at school. I still don't know if I made that right decision or not, but I think about it often. In my school there was a boy who had no friends. He greeted everyone but had no real or close friends. This aspect of him always made me suspect his personality. One day I found him in the library and we started a conversation. After that we started seeing each other often in the library. Slowly and steadily we became good friends. The feeling that was emerging in my heart of being friends with someone who was lonely made me feel happy. When I became friends with that boy, he revealed to me that he was really lonely and suffering. He desperately needed someone to share all the things he was suffering from. In difficult times I was a supporter and... in the center of the paper... in what situation. But we also cannot ignore the fact that there are forces that manipulate and influence an individual's decision-making power. In this regard, I would like to raise the question: in the circumstances and situation I found myself in, is it right for other people to put so much pressure to make the decision of their choice? Is it right that if a person is on the wrong path we don't talk or be friends with him? Isn't it right to be friends with that individual and try to make improvements in their life? Is it more important to listen to your parents and consider your friends' wishes than humanity? These are some of the questions that often come to mind. These are the questions that have become the mystery of my life. I hope to find the answers to these questions before my breath count ends.