Too often little thought is given to how to include or help someone else in one's life. Even the idea of ​​having a child is perceived as a personally enriching experience. While doing a Google search “How long does it take to raise a child?” there are very few links to sites where the curious can find information about an estimated amount. However, suggestions for the "do you mean" topics show numerous results for "How much money does it take to raise a child?" research results list an estimated average of two hundred and fifty thousand dollars per child. Once again, this places an emphasis on the monetary value of raising children rather than the value of time spent with loved ones. With so much importance placed on the monetary costs of raising children, it may not be surprising that not much thought or research is given into the amount of time and attention it actually takes to raise a child. A self-oriented society has led to the belief that monetary success is the greatest