How can we resolve conflict in our relationship? This question might be asked by many people. A conflict can occur when there is a disagreement or negative communication between people. Conflict is common in relationships, marriages, friends and co-workers. They are normal and impossible to avoid. While conflicts are impossible to avoid, there are several conflict management strategies that can be used to resolve any conflict. There are two conflict management skills that will serve me well as I continue to grow personally. The first conflict management skill is to be a conscious listener. It is very important to consider the other person's ideas, thoughts and actions without making judgments. Show respect by paying attention and gain an understanding of what is happening and what is being said. Above all, be cautious in how you respond. According to the Help Guide (2013), “Mindful listening helps improve both mental and physical health and is a key element to happiness.” (key points and par. 2) This article also provides examples of different helping techniques...
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