A Reluctant Move One of my favorite quotes is: “If you don't like something, change it; If you can't change it, change how you think about it” by Mary Engelbreit. After going through a huge change myself, I have chosen to accept that change is good. It's important to make the best of how things are going and adapt to it. As I sat there wondering what it would be like, I couldn't help but have tears in my eyes. What was about to happen would change my life and my perspective forever. This was a life-changing decision for me. As far as I knew, moving to America was the opposite direction I wanted to go, but this decision ended up changing my life. Why was I so reluctant to move? It is widely recognized that America is known for its endless opportunities, wealth, independence and enthusiasm. The land of possibilities, some say. Many foreigners dream of living in America, but I don't. From the stories I had heard, my father was moving us to a place full of materialistic people and places. We had the same routine, the same places we all hung out, and the same culture that I was so used to in Germany. Leaving my friends, family and home was a huge turning point that I was afraid of and skeptical of. Growing up in Wiesbaden, Germany gave me a great appreciation for European cultures. It was the only lifestyle I knew. Even though I didn't know much about the American way of life, I understood almost all European countries. I knew my city like the back of my hand and all the people who lived there. I knew where I could take my dog ​​for a walk and what were the best places to shop. I knew all the options my friends and I had on a Friday night and where the fun places were downtown. I felt very comfortable and self-sufficient in my environment. Wiesbaden was my home and I was very nervous about giving it up. I think my biggest fear was that of the unknown. I like to know what's going on and what to expect.