Brothers are the friends we never asked for but with whom God puts us together. Siblings can be involved in our lives as long as we are alive; therefore we share a bond that no one else is able to share with that person. They go through every season of life together, whether it's the death of a parent, divorce, or the birth of children. But even if contact is interrupted for a period of time, a sibling relationship can be renewed at any time, which I think is very unique. For as long as my mind can remember, my sister and I have always had trouble getting along with each other. Being adopted by different families, we were already destined to be different from each other, but it doesn't help that we also have opposite personalities. From the volume of tone to the way we reacted to punishments, my sister was determined to do what she wanted and make sure everyone knew she was right. To summarize, we have never gotten along, but through this project I will gain knowledge from other wise writers on how to put our differences aside and learn to live life to the fullest with her as my friend, whether we are near or far. Brothers are a very interesting idea for me because they can be best friends but they can also be something more if one wants it. Julie Nelson (2013) states, "My brothers definitely saw the worst of me, and I saw theirs. No one ran away. It's like we signed a contract a long time ago, before we were even aware of it what we were doing." entering, and over time I gained the wisdom to see that we had not been deceived” (web) I love this quote because it puts 'brotherhood' into a context I had never thought of before best friends who... halfway.. .hard work will eventually turn into a strong relationship. In the grand scheme of things, I really value the relationship I have with my sister and I wish it only got stronger. Through this search, he has helped me by encouraging me to move forward even when it is not easy with our contrasting personalities, it will be very difficult but I know the Lord will bless my efforts to repair this broken relationship. Through the previous project, my aunt encouraged me to find her love language and attend to those needs because that will speak to her more than anything else. I love my sister dearly and can't wait to see how the Lord will bless this spark within me to pursue her friendship and companionship. I always want her by my side through the good times and the bad, but we've got a long road ahead of us and I think it's going to be wonderful..
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